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"I will search for you through 1000 worlds and 10000 lifetimes!" KAI ~ from the movie 47 Ronin ~  

That Right Person...

 That Right Person...   

 Somebody once told me that "Finding the right person is very hard and very wrong.....it is best to be the right person for the one you love and start from there...you'll always end up disappointed when you set standards and define a "right person" for you...and don't rush things....coz somewhere somehow God is preparing somebody for you."   You can never be perfect...the person you love can never be perfect...but both of you can be perfect through love and prayers, and your love can be perfect through the both of you.  But, no relationship is complete without God.....that's why we have marriage it's a bond not only between you and your loved one....but also with God.   Our relationships fail not because (s)he's not the right person....it's  because we expected too much and we decided on our own....let God do the  work...you may call it waiting time....but while you are  waiting...pray.  Let God guide you always...He knows better.  No, He knows best.   Love is not what you think it is....Sometimes we mistakenly feel that our first relationship will be our last.  Because we are overwhelmed with joy and romance, we forget to learn the meaning of true love.  Some are saying that love is unselfish, blind, unconditional or simply denying oneself for the sake of someone very important in our life.   Others are saying love is immortal and can never be defined.  When we think   we're in love the first thing we almost wanted the whole world to know is that our love for someone very special can never be taken away from us.   We say this phrase "You are the most wonderful gift from GOD I have ever received..."  After a terrible fight or sometimes even a petty quarrel we then say "You are the biggest mistake I’ve ever made for my entire life...!!!!". Now, how do you say and spell the word L-O-V-E? Are you really deeply into it?   Nobody can tell what love really is until experience speaks and whispers right into our ears.  Most of the time, these love promises like "Forever, Till Death do us apart, etc." would end up "Never" and "We should part ways, I'm no longer happy with you! My love for you is DEAD!!!". Many times we thought after having committed to someone and your trust to one another freezes down to zero degree "S/He ain't the right one. I should probably wait for the right one to come."   But the big question anyone could not answer is "Is she/he the right one?"  and "When is the right time?" That made us stick to whom we are with. Will you always be waiting for the right person to come and the right time to commit? A big YES is the answer. Don't be in a hurry to get into a relationship because you can never find love if you insist that you are already into it.  Try to find time to really understand your real feelings, to know who you really are, and what you really want in a relationship.   You're right, There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, but there's   a compatible partnership that goes along with it. If you already knew that you're too big to fit into a small sized t-shirt, don't give it a try.  You'll probably break it and pay for the damages you have made. If you knew   and felt that the relationship will not last, don't go deeper into it.  You'll just suffer the consequences and live like hell the rest of your life.   It's really hard to say goodbye though, but you can't make it any better by   just pretending you still have the same feelings.  Try to let go and give yourself a chance to live life to the fullest.  Give yourself a chance to grow and give your heart a much needed attention. Then you will find that you have made the right decision and you made it all by yourself.  More frequently than not, we all act in a hypocritical manner for some reason.   We call it love when we can't leave someone and see them crying as we try to let go. We are wrong, its just pity.  We call it love when we're too attached and think that losing the one we love will somehow make us weak and unable to face the storms of life.  We misunderstood, its just that we're too much dependent to them. We call it love when we give our whole life to them, the wholeness of us and imagined that if they leave no one would accept us and our past.   We are mistaken, its just insecurity.  But no matter what the definition is, the truth still remains that love isn't something you can buy nor beg.  It is real and existing.  You can't touch it but you can feel it in your heart.  You can't find it, but it will knock before you when you least expect it to come.  It can make you the happiest soul in heaven, but don't forget that it also can make you the most miserable person in the   whole galaxy. 

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Someone Just Like You

Someone Just Like You                        

I am the addict
who has quit, but still
has the itch
Turn your back
and keep me searching, it's what keeps you rich
But I continue to live
in poverty, because I am free
Searching thru eyes
that are open, but cannot see
So force a smile
and whisper, tell me this is true
Because I've been waiting
for someone, someone just like you

Author: Cory Jones

The Promise

The Promise

© By Anonymous

My promise to you is to be there for you.
Thru the pain and the sorrow thru every
tomorrow.
To lend a shoulder to lean on when your
feeling blue. To have an open ear to
listen to you.
When I hear your cries, I promise to
advice and never criticize.
Your never to feel alone when your weathering a storm. I will be the light
that you see thru the clouds, no matter
how dark your surroundings are, know that
I am there thru the mist and the rain
lending a helping hand to help ease
the pain.
You never need to feel alone.
No matter how near or far we are, know
that I am here as your shining star.
When you look up at the sky at night
know that I am thinking of you even
though your not in sight, my heart is
with you.
I will cheer you on and be proud when life take a turn and is better for you.
There are many tomorrows in your life
you see, don't ever give up because you have me.
You have someone here who loves you and cares and will never give up on you even on a dare.
I'm here for the long run be good or bad
your part of my life now with pages to fill with memories and friendship until the earth stands still.
So this is my promise to you.
Remember it always for I am right here.
Think of me often and find comfort in
knowing I care...

I Tried

 

I Tried

© By Jayden Grimm

I tried not to let you see,
Just how much you meant to me.
I tried not to let you in,
But somehow you always win.
Now I'm trying not to fall apart,
Not so easy to do on a broken heart.

I tried not to care,
But that was impossible with you always there
I tried not to fall in love with you,
But how, I had No clue.
Now I'm trying not to fall apart,
But you've stolen every splintered piece of my heart.

I wasn't ready to say goodbye,
Why did you believe in all the lies?
Now she's the one you adore,
Leaving me crushed to the core.
And I'm trying not to fall apart,
Not so easy to do on a broken heart.

Like Air

 Like Air

© By Anonymous

I lost something.
A very important part of me.
The worst part is that I probably never had it.
He came into my life a cool breeze.
Everyone knows that you can't catch air.
But I'm a fool and yes I tried.
And just when I thought I had him,
he slipped right through my fingers.
Like Air.
If I close my eyes, I can still feel his arms around me.
Grabbing his hand and pointing at Orion.
Feel his breath on my neck, his body calming my cold shivers.
I replay that moment every time I blink.
I heard him tell me to open my heart.
I felt him open his.
And for the first time in a long time, I felt safe.
Every fear that I had .
Every insecurity vanished when he told me that he loved me.
So soft. So low. So gentle. So real.
The moment magnified, I could hear the fish swim in the river below.
I could see the fragment of glass on the moon and everything went silent.
So quiet that you could hear my breathless response.
I wanted to cry. I wanted to reach up and slap God high five.
But then like air- it disappeared.
His breathing got heavy.
I saw flickers in his eyes and within a couple of seconds my world came crashing down. His confessions cut me like shrapnel.
And even though his thoughts hadn't become actions,
I couldn't help but feel like I had lost him.
It hurt so bad. So bad. He turned the tables on me with his sexy swiftness.
Made me feel as though I had committed the ultimate crime.
And what did I do? I let him. He made my eyes melt. Made my ears bleed.
Made my heart ache. And just like a cool sudden breeze- he was gone.
He removed a pebble from my foundation and collapsed the greatest pyramid in Egypt. And after the dust cleared, and the air had returned to it's resting stage.
I was left in ruins. Like air- I was gone.